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Indiana · 03-31-2009, 05:28 AM

I think you should move on. Not everything can be wrapped up and put away in a box of easy resolution.

You reached out to her once and she ignored it. What that seems to say is that although she was the wronged party, she already has all the resolution she requires in the matter.

If you were to pursue it further, it would be only for your own gratification, not to make things right for her.

Life is full of situations that do not necessarily provide the resolution we crave. Learning that some things are outside your control and being able to let them go is part of personal growth.

03-31-2009, 05:28 AM	#2 (permalink)
Indiana Banned Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,902	I think you should move on. Not everything can be wrapped up and put away in a box of easy resolution. You reached out to her once and she ignored it. What that seems to say is that although she was the wronged party, she already has all the resolution she requires in the matter. If you were to pursue it further, it would be only for your own gratification, not to make things right for her. Life is full of situations that do not necessarily provide the resolution we crave. Learning that some things are outside your control and being able to let them go is part of personal growth.