 Contacting
alright, i'll keep this simple.
my first love relationship in high school went to college, and it ended on a really bad note with me doing something unforgivable by putting up a profile on a dating website and then lying about (i was immature CLEARLY)
it's been almost three years now, and i felt like in the earlier days of our relationship we had some fun times (it was both our first love relationship), which meant it was that hopelessly romantic puppy love mushy stuff, but now it's like that doesn't even matter, because i ruined it by being an *******. like a lot of guys, i just started getting scared, and didn't know how to handle this situation, because i'd never been in it before, and had never hurt someone's feelings, but in the end i ended up hurting here even more.
in a sense, i look back on this relationship and think "wow! i never really got to truly know that girl" because i have aged and become such a different person.
i sent her a birthday card last year just to show her i cared. i wasn't expecting a response, and didn't get one, so i just left things at that.
i don't have any intention of getting back together with her
my question is, when a relationship ends on a bad note such as this, do you just move on and never talk to the person again or contact them later down the road, and how long should that be?
i never run into her in person, so i'd probably have to contact her by email.
your thoughts would be MUCH appreciated
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