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Diandra25 · 03-27-2009, 02:19 PM

OMG Wordkeeper!! you kno what?

your post gave me a synch as well!!!

Today i dont know what happened to me but i finally did it!!!

i am in an almost 3 year of relationship and i acted based on fear - whenever i didnt told my bf the things i really felt and thought just not to hurt him or make him think that i was judging..his own family.

He is passing hard times now and i do my best but his family still dont give him the care,love or understanding he needs.He is faced now with an health dilema and even so he feels unsupported - by his parents and brother.

He came back at me on the phone cause i shared this problem with my family,trying to help - my sister is specialist on his problem.but he was ungry and started discussing that i cannot keep my mouth shout and i had to tell my family and they would judge him or treat him like a porr guy...YUP this makes no sense.

So i acted based on my TRUTH FINALLY!!!! I SAID ALL I DIDNT IN THE PAST.I FREED MYSELF FROM MY FEARS of LOOSING HIM.AFRAID OF HIM NOT UNDERSTAND MY LOVE.THAT who loves,trust.and who trusts,gives.

I SAID all his loneliness and unsoppurted feeling in life,all his insecurities,all his misjudgements happens due to his lack of support since his childwood.
their parents didnt tried to understand him as a unique individual and still today they dont come out of his confort zone.,even knowing that their "child" is needing!!

i stepped outside my own confort zone and SAID IT ALL!!! I WAS BASED ON LOVE,TRYING TO REACH OUT HIS interior and from a psichological view help him see what he needs to in order to be happier.

I am a very introverted person and reserved.I NEVER EVER tried to skip my fear of not saying ,y feelings abput this cause i feared that he would not undertsand what i was trying to say.

BUT I DID IT!AND....couple seconds of silence...he asked sorry and said he was afraid of what going to come next and was being unreasonable with me.

and said that i was right....he didnt felt hurted or angru with my honesty

he said that i might be right afterall.

and i said that he is the only one who had to see what is best for him.and that ALL HAPPENS FOR A REASON.THAT even apparent sudden health problems appear cause we are not happy,feeling in our Right Path.

he,skeptical on this....is starting to open his Mind.

So...IMAGINE OUR SYNCHS on this WORDKEEPER

And today i saw the numbers 12:11 two times...

03-27-2009, 02:19 PM	#275 (permalink)
Diandra25 Family Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,072	OMG Wordkeeper!! you kno what? your post gave me a synch as well!!! Today i dont know what happened to me but i finally did it!!! i am in an almost 3 year of relationship and i acted based on fear - whenever i didnt told my bf the things i really felt and thought just not to hurt him or make him think that i was judging..his own family. He is passing hard times now and i do my best but his family still dont give him the care,love or understanding he needs.He is faced now with an health dilema and even so he feels unsupported - by his parents and brother. He came back at me on the phone cause i shared this problem with my family,trying to help - my sister is specialist on his problem.but he was ungry and started discussing that i cannot keep my mouth shout and i had to tell my family and they would judge him or treat him like a porr guy...YUP this makes no sense. So i acted based on my TRUTH FINALLY!!!! I SAID ALL I DIDNT IN THE PAST.I FREED MYSELF FROM MY FEARS of LOOSING HIM.AFRAID OF HIM NOT UNDERSTAND MY LOVE.THAT who loves,trust.and who trusts,gives. I SAID all his loneliness and unsoppurted feeling in life,all his insecurities,all his misjudgements happens due to his lack of support since his childwood. their parents didnt tried to understand him as a unique individual and still today they dont come out of his confort zone.,even knowing that their "child" is needing!! i stepped outside my own confort zone and SAID IT ALL!!! I WAS BASED ON LOVE,TRYING TO REACH OUT HIS interior and from a psichological view help him see what he needs to in order to be happier. I am a very introverted person and reserved.I NEVER EVER tried to skip my fear of not saying ,y feelings abput this cause i feared that he would not undertsand what i was trying to say. BUT I DID IT!AND....couple seconds of silence...he asked sorry and said he was afraid of what going to come next and was being unreasonable with me. and said that i was right....he didnt felt hurted or angru with my honesty he said that i might be right afterall. and i said that he is the only one who had to see what is best for him.and that ALL HAPPENS FOR A REASON.THAT even apparent sudden health problems appear cause we are not happy,feeling in our Right Path. he,skeptical on this....is starting to open his Mind. So...IMAGINE OUR SYNCHS on this WORDKEEPER And today i saw the numbers 12:11 two times...