While I may not subscribe to the ideology for EHarmony, I think they have a good system. I may be in the minority here, but I appreciated the fact that they weeded out alot of the folks I didn't have alot of points of commonality with. But like alot of you said, maybe I was just ready and she was just ready and it just so happened to be the vehicle where we found each other. I'd tried a few other dating sites before (Match.com, Yahoo Personals, and even Onion Personals
), but didn't find the same quality of people. But then again, maybe because you pay so much to get started with EHarmony in the first place I assigned more value to it intrinsically. Thanks for those of you who took the time to look and/or reply.