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Originally Posted by 172  But, this is exactly what SHE did to HIM by unilaterally making the decision repeatedly to bring another new pet into the home over and over again. You don't see that? |
Really? No, I don't see how this was unilateral.
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Originally Posted by Marcus1968 My partner is a Vet Nurse and a registered bird carer. All great things and when we met I knew this and that she kept various sick birds at her house. Since then we have moved in together to our house we bought.
My partner allready owned one cat. First thing she did when moving in was she bought a dog. All good, dogs are great. Then she brought home a dog that was getting put down as it was uncontrollable according to its owner. That was ok as it was a nice little dog and we soon had it sorted. Next she brought home two kittens whos mother died. She was to hand rer them then give them to the local pet store, all good to my thinking. When it came time to give them to the store she couldn't part with them. After much debate and her crying and going a bit crazy on me, I gave in and she/we kept the kittens. |
So, she might not have asked him
beforehand, and she might cry etc. I'm certainly not saying her communication style is optimal! But as I see it, they
did talk about it and
he repeatedly agreed.
And now he resents
her because
he agreed? IMO: his problem.
Edit1: Marcus1968, sorry for talking about you in the third person.
Edit2: I wasn't talking about the OP, btw, I was replying to Alexjstrandberg's advice.