It seems that at lot of assumptions in this question are being made - assumptions that are based on a certain belief.
This question assumes that you have no control over your life, you either are good looking or not - and if you're not good looking, people will not respect/like/seek you.
Let's assume that you are ugly, and everyone in the world hates ugly people. Let's assume there is a measure of ugly. So... you are ugly, and everyone hates you because you are ugly. So... now what? Where does that leave you? What are you going to do about that?
The wonderful thing about beliefs is that each and every one of us has 100% power within ourselves to change them. Does this belief empower you and enable you to live the life you want? Or does it hold you back and limit your potential? What beliefs will you choose and how will you allow it to affect your life?
I personally believe that I'm beautiful and everyone loves me. It can't be proven - I'm sure all sorts of people would say, Um, ns, sorry to break it to you, but you're ugly and I don't like you!
I can choose to believe them and wallow, or believe me, laugh, and live the life I choose.
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