Sometimes what you can do is go to an expensive hair salon and let someone with experience help you choose a look that works for you. You might pay 3x normal, however end up with something magnificent that someone else can maintain.
And for clothes... it's not necessarily needed to go GQ. Environmentally dry cleaning is horrible, it costs money, and takes time too.
What it really comes down to is who you want to attract, and who you need to be to attract that person. Maybe you need a change, but it might not to be GQ status! It could be a matter of changing where you are looking for women to ask out. Do you know what I mean?
Sit down and write out in detail who this lady is you're looking for, how important each item is (musts vs nice to have's) and then who you would need to be to attract that person. I guarantee you you'll learn something important from this exercise (I did it and met my husband soon after).
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