I've seen a number of articles in magazines the past two years that scientists believe that they are begining to discover that there is a biochemistry of love.
A number of articles have said that romantic love......the feeling of being head over heels in love, passion, etc only lasts about a year. After that people shift gears into another kind of love.
I guess this is why it makes sense to partner up with "your best friend".....somebody you would enjoy living with apart from any sexuality.
I only mention this because you BF did not have a problem with your weight for a long time.
Good luck. I know there are a lot of useful things to be said, but that you will still have to live with unpleasant feelings for a while.
I've been dealing with some ************ since last week so I can relate.
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