I would suggest taking the ball back into your own court. Don't wait around for him to decide how he feels before you decide what to do. You should choose to take some action that would make you feel better without him, go stay with a friend for a fun weekend or something.
It is very hard to see the truth about a situation when you are involved in it. Give yourself a little space and you will feel a lot clearer about what is going on and what you want to do next.
If you feel insecure because of the things he's saying to you, your decisions will be clouded by that insecurity. I would definitely not leave your job and plan your move while you are feeling unsure. Don't let him push you into anything.
The most important thing you can do though is to find something without him that makes you feel good. Whatever happens with the relationship, you need to feel good about yourself.
I hope things work out for you.
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