Hi there,
I have recently been dropped by a lovely lady who promised me the world and then just got bored. I gave up everything to go to another country and try to make a life with her, but for whatever reason I proved not to be the one. We had 18 months of bliss and I was gutted when she said it was maybe better if I went away. There was no point arguing about it. If she didn't want me then she didn't want me. After I got back we continued a friendship of sorts but then the lady turned quite aggressive and called me all kinds of names. I was totally confused and upset about it but I stopped contacting her, and that was the best thing I could do.
What I will say though you may not think so, is that things will get better. It may seem like the end of the world but it's not. Things do get better and I find myself laughing at my gullibility and the lack of self-worth that I felt. It took a little while to realise that I'm not a bad man, just a little naive, but it was another of life's painful lessons that I did learn from.
I'm still on my own but I'm having fun and enjoying myself again. I hope things work out well for you.
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