I'm lucky to have a fianceé who watches porn even by herself sometimes. She is wise enough to realize that all men watch porn (as she says), and confident enough to know that I'd never compare her with porn. If she catches me watching it by myself, she can get my full attention in about .5 secs with a right word or gesture. One more reason to thank the world for me having her.
What are you afraid of?
If you'd like to have more sex from him, then just take it. Tease him about the MSN picture, tease him more and give in only after he agrees that you are more beautiful, and matter more to him than all the 10000000 porn pics in the world. If you are afraid of him really prefering someone else he sees in porn over you, you either need to get real, or to get a new man. If you are really unsure, ask a serious, direct question. Don't pressure him or force him to quit, just ask him for the information.
In other words: either him watching porn is just a symptom that something is wrong with your relationship (don't blame the symptom, blame the cause) or it's just harmless way of self-release and you have nothing to be afraid of (you also look at foreign men sometimes, don't you)?
If you are still not comfortable, just ask him to be more discrete with his porn. As a good man, he will understand.  |