Thanks, Michael
That sounds good to me. You're right in that women aren't the only ones objectified by porn. I guess I was focusing on a majority and running with it... but I failed to notice the other types of porn.
I love it that you turned the question around to me (why shouldn't I watch porn for him??). That made me laugh and realize how it's unfair and unrealistic to expect him to stop because he cares about me (I wouldn't start watching it just because I care about him - I wouldn't enjoy it at all). I feel uncomfortable with the idea of him stopping for me because it's restrictive of who he is. I want to be in a relationship where each of us is free to be exactly who we are.
That link was an eye opener too!