You need to talk to your girlfriend openly and honestly about how you feel. Tell her exactly what it is you need.
Is it possible part of you feels guilty for focusing on your work while she is around? Do you feel you must be attentive to her at all times if you want to keep her as a girlfriend?
Perhaps you can develop a system where you put a sign on your office door when you are working, with the understanding that you must not be bothered unless the world is ending or the house is on fire.
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