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reikiangel · 03-16-2009, 05:47 PM

Hi Aware,

I'm a psychic medium and I've got allot of people who walk in the door expecting miracles and basically everything answered. How a good medium works is that they will tell you first that nothing is guareenteed. That is what I tell my clients because spirit can be fussy just like they were on this earthplane if they are just people you lost that is. They may or may not come in, or not the spirits you want, it's who is there and willing to come to you. A spirit medium is a tough job at times with high expectations from the client. A good medium will not bs you or draw out the validation from the spirit..they wore a white shirt, buttoned up to the neck, etc. that is bs.. they are drawing it all out to make it a longer reading. They should give you very specific examples of what the spirit looks like, how they acted in life, and validations. Last week I had a woman in my office who lost someone. She did not want to tell me the name.. that is fine. I saw two spirits first whom she did not recognize.. but they were spirit guides and we do not always know who they are. Then I said tell me the persons name.. that's it and I called out for him. He came in finally and I said to myself finally.. this woman's going think I"m a fake! He described himself to me, what he looked like, space between his teeth and all, how he died, and messages for her. She began to ball her eyes out. It was someone she was close to and I described him perfectly. He did not want to come in right away because he was still upset about his passing. So go in there and dont' tell her anything at all. If she is not getting the spirit you were hoping for.. be patient and wait. Sometimes they do not come through right away. If not, then ask her to connect to "Sally" and let that be all the information she asks for. Let me tell you that spirit's personality is the same on the other side as it is here.. if they were stubborn and dont' want to come through, they may not..

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reikiangel Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Bridgewater, Massachusetts Posts: 11	Hi Aware, I'm a psychic medium and I've got allot of people who walk in the door expecting miracles and basically everything answered. How a good medium works is that they will tell you first that nothing is guareenteed. That is what I tell my clients because spirit can be fussy just like they were on this earthplane if they are just people you lost that is. They may or may not come in, or not the spirits you want, it's who is there and willing to come to you. A spirit medium is a tough job at times with high expectations from the client. A good medium will not bs you or draw out the validation from the spirit..they wore a white shirt, buttoned up to the neck, etc. that is bs.. they are drawing it all out to make it a longer reading. They should give you very specific examples of what the spirit looks like, how they acted in life, and validations. Last week I had a woman in my office who lost someone. She did not want to tell me the name.. that is fine. I saw two spirits first whom she did not recognize.. but they were spirit guides and we do not always know who they are. Then I said tell me the persons name.. that's it and I called out for him. He came in finally and I said to myself finally.. this woman's going think I"m a fake! He described himself to me, what he looked like, space between his teeth and all, how he died, and messages for her. She began to ball her eyes out. It was someone she was close to and I described him perfectly. He did not want to come in right away because he was still upset about his passing. So go in there and dont' tell her anything at all. If she is not getting the spirit you were hoping for.. be patient and wait. Sometimes they do not come through right away. If not, then ask her to connect to "Sally" and let that be all the information she asks for. Let me tell you that spirit's personality is the same on the other side as it is here.. if they were stubborn and dont' want to come through, they may not..