If you wish for something and then you acknowledge it doesn't matter whether or not you receive or achieve it, then detachment may indeed influence circumstances you do not expect. We hear that some of the best situations evolve when we least expect them, but I believe part of us is often seeking something in our soul or it wouldn't manifest. We need to be observant enough to recognize love or other opportunities that appear nearby. If you detach yourself from completely outcomes, they may come even if you don't wish for them, and you may let them float bywithout acknowledgement even if they would be good for you .