 the ex contacted me
Yesterday out of the blue my ex sent me a text message saying 'hey how are you doing.' Considering I had sent her an email a few days ago saying I forgive all that she had done, and that it's her choice whether she ever talks to me or not. She barely checks her emails last I remember that's why I did it that way and decided not to contact her ever. I was nice and responded to the text asking how she has been, then she sent another calling me sexy. This is weird because she never talked to me that way before. I responded asking if she is sure who she's talking to, but she hasn't responded.
I figured the smart thing to do is not go after her like before, not try and find out what she wanted, just let her come to me whatever the reason may be.
But it sort of looks like she's playing games again. My position is I would only get back together if I can tell that she's changed and realized all the things that I had told her and warned her about. If not and she hasn't grown up yet then I leave things be as they are.
Is my approach smart?
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