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Originally Posted by AGBourne  Don't ask her. That is one sure way of ruining attraction by asking her a direct question about if she is attracted to you or vice versa.
Attraction is the magic that maybe happening to you and her, just let it happen. DOn't ruin it by analyzing it, but you are right be more aware of it like you have been that is a great step forward. |
I don't care if I ruin the attraction really, I'm not interested in having her attracted to me nor am I interested in anything developing between me and her. I'm just curious whether what I felt was accurate or not. I'm also curious whether other people have felt the same type of energetic pull that I described.
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Also, remember that attraction is not a choice.
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Oh? I think I can make a conscious choice not to be attracted to certain people that I've decided are not good for me to be attracted to. Maybe I can be attracted to someone subconsciously, but then with my conscious mind I can override it.
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Originally Posted by cylon That with men, attraction is instant, |
Not necessarily with me at all times. I've felt instant attraction a number of times. However, I've also initially felt zero attraction toward a woman, and only through getting to know her by beings friends with her through a period of time did I start to feel very attracted to her and then developed an intimate relationship with her.