@Erock: It's funny to see that 'a 17 year old male' gets it SO right.
@Farrin: Your man is releasing sexual energy he cannot contain within himself or release with you, emphasis on cannot! It's as simple as that.
A solution that's guaranteed to work:
1. Read Paul Hoch's "White Hero, Black Beast" to understand the causes of male sexual difficulties far more precisely than 99% of the men and women in this society. (OK, that's not really necessary but it's one of the books in my 'Must Read For Everyone In Western Society' category)
2. Say the following to your partner: "You agree to no longer masturbate or watch porn and I agree to always make myself available for fulfilling your sexual desires, deal?"
