[jmhagman]

Can someone help me with this? I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 months ( I know not very long) but I mistakenly placed a great deal in this person and fell in love, and I thought she did too. After about a month I started to notice increasing passive/covert-aggressive behavior on her part. She became very controlling, would find ways to put me down in private and in front of others and anytime I reacted to it she would say I was “too serious” or “too sensitive”. She would constantly talk about her problems, how much she hated her job, her relationship with her mother and complained about her friends and thought I was interested in every girl she knew or anyone I talked to. I literally couldn’t even look around without her getting upset and becoming cold towards me. Still the time we spent together that was good was magical and I miss her terribly, but I know she doesn’t feel the same way about me as she is out and active and acting like nothing even matters. I finally called things off last Saturday when while I was trying to walk away from an argument she screamed at me and hit me with her purse. I tried to talk to her after this, but she wasn’t even really remorseful and tried to blame me for the way she reacted. She seems like she only wants to place blame on me for everything and doesn’t even seem to really realize the pain she caused me. Perhaps she was just looking for someone to abuse, or maybe this was her way out of the relationship. Now we don’t even talk and it hurts. My mind knows this is best, but my heart hurts and I constantly have dreams of her with other men and can’t seem to get her off my mind. I NEED HELP   I am 28 years old BTW.