I think that what we see as physical attractiveness is a learned thing. It is because of the messages associated with particular images we grew up with.
Yes this means a young curvy shaped blonde haired lady can be very ugly and plain to someone while an old 200kg lady with glasses, short curly grey hair, a body of similar shape to a man, and with red dots all over her body can be the most cutest and beautiful lady in the world.
Ofcourse, most people could not even Imagine seeing things this way. That's because you have never seen any sexy or beautiful descriptions or messages or labels about the last lady I mentioned.
Think about it!!! Here is a video I made for my unhappy girl friend who is a young mother.
YouTube - Pregnancy & after birth Inspiration
A reply to the video and my reply to the reply:
gothybatsandrainbows
This video is horrible. I can't believe how many women think it's "okay" and "natural" to let themselves go after pregnancy. Ugh, some of these pictures made me sick! Obesity is unhealthy for moms and babies alike. Yes, I AM a mom... living proof that this does NOT EVER NEED TO HAPPEN. Please ladies, don't throw yourselves away to stupid gluttony... not only is it hideous to look at, but it's bad for your health, and teaches your kids bad eating habits.
gothybatsandrainbows I don't think you understood my message. Its ok if you don't but thought I would explain more. Obesity is unhealthy, so is anorexia, smoking cigarettes, and drinking alcohol. But while they are getting healthier they can have good self esteem and feel gorgeous just as they are. You say someone is hideous to look at, but most people have grown up conditioned as to what is beautiful. Maybe, just maybe, beauty is a subjective thing. Think about it
