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Old 03-11-2009, 09:09 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by merveilles View Post
- I'm scared to death when I have to talk to someone
- I don't like hearing myself talk
- Low confidence in social situations
- Possibly over analyze
- Bad past experiences
This might be a big part of your problem: a laser-sharp focus on yourself.

You might get a more positive response if you focus on the person you're speaking to -- it generally makes a better first impression than being totally self-absorbed, don't you think?
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