I don't think it's fair to say that black women aren't beautiful. First of all, you're generalizing and that's never good. Every women, black or white or yellow or red, is different from every other one and has their own unique strengths and weaknesses. Second of all, everyone defines beauty differently. For instance, in some places and times, being fat has been considered very desirable and attractive, and even now there are probably many people who prefer plump women.
You may not like the attitude you see in other black women but that doesn't have to have anything to do with you. There are many things I don't like that I see in other white people. People who think all black women are alike are not people you'd want to have anything to do with anyway.
Nothing is hopeless unless you choose to look at it that way. As Wayne Dyer says, "Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change".
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