Boston:
life is about being responsible, accountable. If you don't tell her it will affect your relationship for the long haul. The fact that you were drinking was not cause of your infidelity so come off it. the drink merely gave you the false courage to do what you long wanted to do. So man up and tell her, it may bring the two of you closer because in all the time the two of have been together she did not do the same and she is finding it hard to tell you.
Peace..........Eli....................
