What would you have to believe about your coworkers to really want to strike up the conversation with them? Would you have to believe that they're nice people? Or maybe you'd have to believe that the differences in opinion gives you another perspective, and therefore expands your horizons? What if you believed that the jagged conversations are a challenge for your social skills that would be fun to overcome?
Change your beliefs. All the relationships are inside of you, so make the change inside.
And if you have reeeaally strong compatibility issues with them, perhaps it's not a right kind of job for you? Perhaps you sell your time to the wrong guys?
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