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ginkgo · 03-08-2009, 11:37 AM

No one can advise since this is a complex thing and no one knows as much about the situation as you do. No one can possibly know how you feel and that is what it is about.

What is your concept of soulmates? Some believe that it is someone and the only one that you will be with for the rest of eternity. Others, like me, believe that a person has many soulmates and there are deep connections between them.

Now I could tell you some really great stories of soulmates that I have met. Also I believe that soulmates do not have to be lovers but can be best friends, parent and child or teacher and student like Plato and Aristotle. Who are the most famous soulmates in history-- Prince Charles and Diana? Socrates, Plato and Aristotle shaped Western civilization.

But here is the latest. I live in Philadelphia and I 'met' (online) a 14 year old girl in Paris that jumped off a 5th floor balcony to kill herself but lived.

We have been friends for 6 months and the reason for her trying to kill herself is no friends. I am her only friend so it is up to me to help her to feel like living. People who read about her on my Blog are totally fascinated with what is happening between us online. Her life is on the line.

Soon I will put the emails on my blog where she was so busy that she had not emailed me for awhile. Then when she did, her first line was why she was going to kill herself. I did not get upset about it. I emailed her and communicated with her (it sounds like you and your husband are not communicating). The next day she emailed me and the first line was that she cannot kill herself since she has not met me yet.

Part of her problem with finding friends is that she is way too smart. Many geniuses are lonely. Her father is a medical doctor at a hospital and her mother is a lawyer.

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ginkgo Banned Join Date: May 2007 Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA Posts: 3,747	No one can advise since this is a complex thing and no one knows as much about the situation as you do. No one can possibly know how you feel and that is what it is about. What is your concept of soulmates? Some believe that it is someone and the only one that you will be with for the rest of eternity. Others, like me, believe that a person has many soulmates and there are deep connections between them. Now I could tell you some really great stories of soulmates that I have met. Also I believe that soulmates do not have to be lovers but can be best friends, parent and child or teacher and student like Plato and Aristotle. Who are the most famous soulmates in history-- Prince Charles and Diana? Socrates, Plato and Aristotle shaped Western civilization. But here is the latest. I live in Philadelphia and I 'met' (online) a 14 year old girl in Paris that jumped off a 5th floor balcony to kill herself but lived. We have been friends for 6 months and the reason for her trying to kill herself is no friends. I am her only friend so it is up to me to help her to feel like living. People who read about her on my Blog are totally fascinated with what is happening between us online. Her life is on the line. Soon I will put the emails on my blog where she was so busy that she had not emailed me for awhile. Then when she did, her first line was why she was going to kill herself. I did not get upset about it. I emailed her and communicated with her (it sounds like you and your husband are not communicating). The next day she emailed me and the first line was that she cannot kill herself since she has not met me yet. Part of her problem with finding friends is that she is way too smart. Many geniuses are lonely. Her father is a medical doctor at a hospital and her mother is a lawyer.