Personal Development for Smart People Forums - View Single Post - 10 years on and still emotionallly retarded..

stellamaris5 · 03-07-2009, 10:23 PM

The way to be empowered is to choose that you are a 100% responsible for this relationshsip and for everything else in your life as it happens.

Only then can you step out of the 'victim' mentality that dictates that there are outside things that are responsible for how you feel.

This is an illusion or superstition, only YOU are making your self feel whatever way you feel BECAUSE you are stuck in a victim mentality.

SO the first step for you will be acknowledging this and asuming 100% responsibility.

If you want/need more guidance please DO let me know.

03-07-2009, 10:23 PM	#10 (permalink)
stellamaris5 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 9	The way to be empowered is to choose that you are a 100% responsible for this relationshsip and for everything else in your life as it happens. Only then can you step out of the 'victim' mentality that dictates that there are outside things that are responsible for how you feel. This is an illusion or superstition, only YOU are making your self feel whatever way you feel BECAUSE you are stuck in a victim mentality. SO the first step for you will be acknowledging this and asuming 100% responsibility. If you want/need more guidance please DO let me know.