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Originally Posted by carenkh  I wonder how much would shift for you if you dropped the thought that this was a way to get your ex back? It seems like with that dangling over your intentions and actions, you're holding back on some freedom. |
Good point. if you look at this as valuable for you and your healing and independence, you will be able to move forward from the breakup more easily. Plus, if she DOES contact you, you will be coming from a more stable, stronger place.
It's a strange, but exes often seem to come back after you've gotten over them.