If you try to help your sister because you need her to be helped, then it is probably best for you to refrain. More anger, fear, or frustration isn't what she needs from you. If you can understand the situation without reacting to it, then it's you're call. Well, it's your call no matter what, but the confrontation may do some good in the second case. If you don't react to your feelings of anger or sadness, then you don't give your sister anything to react to in you. Then maybe she'll hear your words rather than just reacting to your reflection of her own disgust with the situation.
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