I second RT Wolf to start with the facts first. Because that tells your partner that you aren't making this whole thing up. But you can always ask in a nicer tone rather than one of interrogative.
But if you don't have any facts, or rather at least some evidence to suspect in the first place, then you shouldn't even be thinking of using this as a means to test his faithfulness for you. Tests like this aren't meant to be used as a leisure game.
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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina  there's nothing to worry about because you don't yet have what you're afraid of losing. |
Wow, I love this statement. Says so much underneath... Thanks Steve. You've given me a jolt, once again.
