well... the update is that I'm just concentrating on what's best for me right now...
i'm trying different methods of getting my message across.. but if someone doesnt really want to listen.. it doesnt matter how you communicate wtih them.. then hear what they want to hear.
I'm getting my independance back, which I think will be the thing that really hits home wtih him...
Right now I need to concentrate on supporting my best friend who has just been diagnosed with cancer... and I'm focussing on helping her through her healing process... I dont have the time or the energy to try and help someone who is not ready to be helped..
aarrgh! life!! it's like a game of poker... you win some you lose some!
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