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Originally Posted by Dating Specialist  Well sorry but I don't agree with the rest of the guys here to keep your rmouth shut.
Sure, the truth hurts. But the question now is, are you able to live with that guilt weighing on you? It sounds like you suffering heaps from it now, and if this past is haunting you like no end, how do you think it will affect your relationship with her?
Don't tell me you'll be even more loving and treat her better as your way of making up, because she will somehow sense that things are different.
She will be angry with you when she learns about this. She may even break up with you. If she does that, then you can either use your sincerity to win her back again or you have to respect her decision and leave her alone. This can be very painful I'm sure, but take it as a lesson in love and life. You'll know how to handle the next one in future.
But if after she has cooled off and you have truly shown your deep remorse and your strong desire to repent, maybe she will see that you cherish this relationship and wants to go on with her. The fact that you came clean with it also says the responsibility you have as a man - to be accountable for your own actions.
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Agreed. Fess up; you made a mistake, now pay for it. You'll know better than to abuse your next relationship.