[cylon]

Extremes always get the notice. If it was common, if most guys had the focus, stamina, and determination, to actually approach it this way, guys like this would not be on talk shows.

But there are guys who use spread sheets. Not for any evil purpose. But guys that date multiple women, and they want to remember things like birthdays, likes and dislikes, important dates and events that are significant to the woman, because they may have multiple relationships, and don't want to forget stuff, but they aren't out of any ill-will.

Some guys have lists of likes an dislikes, qualities they are seeking in a woman, and they will use methods like that to filter out some of the women they are dating, in order to focus on their objectives of "dating women who are a,b,c".

Guys are just like this. We are like hunters, goal oriented. It is extremely normal for a guy to think of women as prey and to put another notch on the belt and tell his friends about the 'kill'. In a man's world, attractive women are considered possibly the most valuable thing in existence. In the same way we want to accumulate money, wealth, food, shelter, status, we want to accumulate women. Totally natural and normal and our genes make us like this. Nature is supposed to work this way. Nature DOES work this way. If it didn't, guys like Paul Janka would not be out there having sex with an almost unbelievable amount of women.

Not many could pull something like the OP off, but if they could, they would. They just wouldn't actually TALK about it, because they would have society breathing down their necks and shaming them. But they should know what they are getting into when they brag. Jealous guys insulting them. Jealous women shaming them.

ANY shaming towards "PUAs" (men who are non-exclusive with women), is almost always coming from women. Because in the long run, this is not to their advantage. If their objective is to find a man to settle down with and raise the kids, this behavior obviously isn't going to help. But it's exactly this type of guy that HAS kids. This is why guys like this are successful. They are different and stick out and the proof is in the pudding.

And I think to say men like Paul Janka can't relate to other people, like they are real human beings, is wrong. You can have lots of friends, lots of acquaintances, and family members, and relate to all of them as unique people. There is no limit to the amount of people you can relate to. We are social creatures. "The more, the merrier".

Not every woman in this guy's chart, is a low-quality, low-self esteem, psychologically damaged, woman of ill-repute. Like this guy, they are out their living their lives and having fun, acting the way humans do, naturally. But women call other women that, because it's a threat to them and their goal of snagging a guy for marriage.

90% of the dudes who hear about people like Paul Janka secretly wish they could actually be the same way, even if just for awhile, but would never admit it openly.

/ramble.