I will have been married for 20 years next month. I can't know if I would have been happier if I hadn't married, but I doubt it. It's hard to describe, but maybe the best word for it is comfortable. Not that every day or every month is comfortable. Weve both had our issues with fidelity, domestic details, child rearing opinions, finances, etc. I can definately see why a lot of marriages don't last, as the above issues can be deal breakers without a lot of love and work, but it gets easier as the years go by, and now for me it is very difficult to imagine my life without my wife being by my side, as sappy as that sounds. To jsot, if sex with only one person is a deal breaker, then marriage is not for you, at least not yet. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You never know though what you might find in this world.
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