The question is 'do you want to share love with this young lady' or do you want to remain in the illusion of 'being in love.' Sharing love with someone requires openess and honesty 'warts and all.' Can you forgive yourself for being human? If you chose the illusion, sooner or later reality steps in. To er is human, to forgive divine. Forgiveness starts with self. If you don't tell her, you are willing her to remain in the illusion of being 'in love.' While you remain in a state of guilt.
Lallymac
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