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Originally Posted by alexb5784  I take it this is not the first time this has happened to you. What you are doing is living a pattern. You are choosing to attract these type of friends into your life. I would ask myself "Why do I keep having these types of friends? What is it about being treated like crap feels so normal to me?"
Maybe you are used to people letting you down in all areas of your life. You could be unconsciously choosing friends who will make you feel less than. Maybe you have a parent or close family member who always upsets you, so you look for the same familar pattern in friendships. You might be used to being screwed over and know no other way to live. |
= OH!@ U are right!!..u just pinpointed the source of my frustrated personality and insecurity. WOW! It upsetting coz it's true! I paused when i read this..u woke me up!
Thank you. I needed that.
Yup! u are right.. I was disappointed too many times especially from my parents GEez.. I admit I was not brought up normal like every average family.
My family is not NORMAL. My past haunted me and affecting my lifestyle..ie. friendship, decisions etcs..
I wud like to share with u my story..because i value your opinion Alex
Write back if you're interested. or should i set up another discussion forum coz i need guidance right now. I will be 21 soon.. it's scary coz i still dont know what to do with myself.. i m lost ...Still trying to find my path.,seeking reasons to live a better life.
.. its so difficult to look for a path when i m carrying so much emotional baggages, My past is not motivating it's keeping me from moving forward coz i m constantly reminded of my past.