View Single Post
Old 03-03-2009, 04:36 AM   #6 (permalink)
magi13
Family Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Philippines
Posts: 1,421
magi13 will become famous soon enough
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by velvet1 View Post
I'm wondering why I sometimes act like this without even noticing. For example, there are days where I just don't feel attractive. One of those days where your wardrobe, hair, and face is not connecting very well. I feel so insecure, so I guess the way for me to hide is to act as if nothing is happening. Even though my mind plays trick, and tells me people are staring at me. I tend to be more social, and more people actually talk to me more plus seem more comfortable towards me.

Now, when I feel beautiful it is the opposite. I have trouble socializing and people seem to ignore me or they might be intimidated by me.

I'm trying to change this, but I'm not sure where to start. I need some advice please.
You need a change in your perspective or how you see perceive things. Just adjust to what ever the circumstance requires and observe those who are having fun or feels fulfilled and apply what they do in life in your circumstance. ^^,
magi13 is offline   Reply With Quote