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Originally Posted by cylon  Her loss! |
Cylon, I think it's interesting that when it's the woman sticking by her TR guns and cutting off her options at possible love, as a matter of her principles, it's a bummer that "breaks your heart" but when it's you (or, I guess, any man) sticking by his guns and cutting off options at possible love as a matter of principles, (because of a woman who may not be able to sufficiently express her interest in you within the five minute time limit) then it's "her loss" -- which sounds to me like you're emotionally unaffected (or maybe a little snitty).
What's the difference? Why unaffected or snitty when it's the guy doing the cutting, and a heartbreaking bummer when it's a woman who does the cutting?