Angus - that's amazing.
Good on ya.
I've been watching that show "The Pick Up Artist" on VH1 and it's been amazing to see these nerdy guys all transform, like butterflies coming out of a cocoon - they are all turning into very, very attractive men. And I bet they don't all become serious serial sleeparound guys because that's not who they were inside to begin with. The one who IMO was one of the dorkiest ones, computer geek type with a gap in his teeth, got the gap fixed and is really starting to rock the conservative tie-wearing look.
Some of what's so attractive about PUAs is not memorizing a bunch of corny lines... "So do you believe in spells?", heh. It's that we have a movement here of men WHO WORK ON THEMSELVES. They are interested in evolving. Sure, some of them will go on a casual sex rampage, but you have to get there from here. I've met more reformed he-sluts that turned out to be good family men than "40 year old virgins" who were. And for a lot of people, sex loses its mystic power once it stops being scarce... once it becomes really easy to get, so many guys actually decide to "level up" to where the real challenges lay. If sex were hard for women to get, we'd be as obsessed with it as men are!
The fact that over the course of history women worked on themselves and their game but men pretty much just showed up, was a source of frustration for so many women, and finally it's turning around.