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cylon · 03-02-2009, 05:54 PM

Let the guy lead. Ok, so he's really busy and only has tomorrow night free. You like him a lot, and he calls you and says "all I got is tomorrow, can we get together?"

According to you, no... because that breaks the Rule.

All this stuff IS being the leader. You're deliberately setting the tone, you're the leader. So it follows you'd get more guys who are comfortable with being led. And even more masculine energy for you to have to summon up.

If you want him to LEAD, then let yourself be LED. Let him take charge. Follow his lead. You can't have it both ways.

03-02-2009, 05:54 PM	#172 (permalink)
cylon Family Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,852	Let the guy lead. Ok, so he's really busy and only has tomorrow night free. You like him a lot, and he calls you and says "all I got is tomorrow, can we get together?" According to you, no... because that breaks the Rule. All this stuff IS being the leader. You're deliberately setting the tone, you're the leader. So it follows you'd get more guys who are comfortable with being led. And even more masculine energy for you to have to summon up. If you want him to LEAD, then let yourself be LED. Let him take charge. Follow his lead. You can't have it both ways. Last edited by cylon; 03-02-2009 at 05:57 PM.