My question to everyone here is (and I think I have an idea of the answer but I'm not certain): How important is what you CONSCIOUSLY say and do?
My understanding is that your INTENT (focus/desire + will/power) is what makes the real difference. Your intent is subcommunicated through everything you do, no matter what acting you try to do to cover it up. MEN: try this. Next time you're talking to a woman (but not your mum) fill your mind with images, sounds, and sensations of you two making the most erotic love ever and connecting on the deepest level.
I'm serious. See what happens.
Forn further fun and games hold eye contact with her, and "feel" the depths of her soul. As you breath in feel yourself drinking in her essence, and as you breath out give yours to her.
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