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Originally Posted by Jasonv  It seems like the women are saying, "I don't want to date some cheap guy who won't invest $6 on me, of all people, a great woman who is not trying to use them. I am not like those women being described by the men. I am sincere. If I am talking to a man that I am attracted to and that is attracted to me it's really no big deal to buy me a drink. In fact, it's in poor form if he doesn't. It shows he is immature and does not know how to treat a lady." |
Just to be clear fro my end, I'm in no way a woman expecting drinks from guys when I'm out. I think we got on that subject out of my responding to a comment about men not wanting to "pay" for a lady...and I was stressing that there's some logic or purpose behind why a guy would pay for dates.
Meh...or not. It's really all good, as long as one is getting what one wants. Making one choice that has natural consequences which are actually different from what one wants...that's no fun!
Mahalo.
