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Originally Posted by Angela Leeds  When I go out dancing, u have a strict rule of *never* allowing a man to buy a drink for me, unless it's known to be only a friendship, or he's already a romantic partner. Never ever...because if I let that happen, there's a feeling on the part of the guy that I owe him something, even if it's just my attention. And since I'm there to dance, and to dance with many partners, ithat one decision keeps me utterly free from sticky situations.
I find it a real turn-off when men force a drink into the situation and then think I owe them anything. So...you do have to navigate those waters intelligently. That's why I think if I were a guy, I'd view it simply as hospitality...the way a woman may cook for or feed visitors to her home. But...no strings.  |
No strings. Just free drinks. Good deal for you, bad deal for me. Where in the world are you getting this notion of "hospitality"? For what? What did you do? This isn't my home. I don't own this bar/club/whatever. And most likely, I paid to get in, and you got in for free. And it's probably women's night where your drinks are free. And etc. And since YOU got in for free, and got free drinks because it lures guys like me in, the least you could do, is help a guy out, and buy ME a drink. Thanks. I did have to pay a cover charge you know.
And hey, about that dance. Here you are telling me I'm supposed to pay you undivided attention, but there you are dancing with all the guys in the club! That hurts me really bad inside. You're supposed to pay me undivided attention too right? Didn't that dance mean anything to you? Wasn't that officially "our song"?
You're going to proudly dance with multiple partners? After our dance? I feel so betrayed.
Just kidding. But I will take that drink now.