Thread: Fear of success
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:39 PM   #3 (permalink)
Ralph
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Dude, you wouldn't BELIEVE what kind of people some girls can want As long as you want one, you'll find a hermit-lover soon enough.


It sounds to me like you don't consider social interactions fun. That's fine, different people amuse themselves in different ways.

What you consider 'fun' drastically changes over time. There is a way to change it - try various things for the first time. Try out some social things that others consider fun - never dismiss them without trying. If it bores you - that's OK, but do try. You might as well find out that you like something and there's where your interests will begin to become more aligned with meeting a girlfriend.

Also - lack of social skills is never an excuse. If you're going to live in a world full of people for 30 more years or so, you might as well develop them now, right?

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