I did this once. I told my girlfriend (we were about six months in) the next day and she forgave me straight away precisely because I'd come and told her as soon as it had happened. What Erin said is the simplest and most direct thing on this thread, I think: do to others as you'd like to do yourself. It's hard, but you'd want her to make the effort in the same way to tell you, I'm sure, so do it. As soon as you can.
On the other hand, if you'd rather not know if she did the same, then don't say anything. I doubt that's the case, though, because if you don't want mutual trust in a relationship, what have you got to build it on?
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