You are probably too much involved with others and care too much about what they think of you. You should not say things like 'so we will talk later, ok?' or something like that because it sounds like you are desperate to talk to that person.
Keep a bit to yourself and enjoy time with yourself. Do not get obsessed over what others think about you.
You are a bit too clingy because I had one friend who was like that. We were just friends but he would keep texting me all the time and tried to meet me as often as he could. He would pay for everything and do everything for me.
That is all nice, but it shows that that person is desperate. And when someone is desperate you tend to distance yourself from that person.
I personally stopped texting him back, did not answer any calls and avoided meeting him. I did that because I felt a bit scared of him stalking me if I would continue this friendship.
Maybe some people think the same way about you. Maybe the amount of calls and texts they receive from you scare them. You may think that you are reasonable and you are doing everything right because of your personal experiences, but others may think completely differently.
So my final advice is that you should just relax and enjoy your own company. If you do not enjoy your own company, how can you expect others to enjoy it?
When you are completely happy alone, trust me, friends will come so quickly and there will be so many of them that you will not know with whom you want to meet.
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