Yah, what erin said!
Life is the maze, and we put ourselves there in order to grow and learn. Yes, we are already perfect and whole, but there's a whole pattern of mystery to learn and experience. Like a roller coaster ride (if you like them), you've been on it multiple times before, but it's still fun to go on it again.
You guides are exactly that, guides. Like Erin said, you picked them, so they do what you asked them to do. If you are offtrack, they will try and guide you back on track as gently as possible. Gently however can be seen as rough by us when we are material focused. We lose our job, or our house, but it's not really a significant part of us. It's just stuff, but we are so personally hurt by it.
In the end, if you don't want such 'harsh nudges' from your guides, stop being so stubborn, you dunderhead.
