Don't just ignore the bad behavior by ignoring her calls, she will just continue to act aloof. If your dog pisses on the carpet and you ignore it the problem won't just go away on it's on.
Next time you talk to her bring the issue up. Let her know that if she continues this bad behavior that she won't be dating you anymore. Don't make an ideal threat because she will see right through it. That type of continuous disrespectful behavior is grounds for breaking up.
Tell her that taking her issues out on you is not acceptable-you aren't her punching bag. Tell her that if she wants help that you are willing to help her but you won't tolerate her disrespect.
Ask her straight up if she truly wants to be in this relationship. If she says yes then she needs to change. If she says no then you know where the relationship stands.
After she agrees your situation will become easier or non-existent (breaking up). The second she starts up with the attitude you can stop her and say "You said you were going to knock it off, didn't you? Were you lying to me because I don't date liars" If she keeps going then get rid of her.
If she decides to stop then she needs to apologize for showing you disrespect (the same as you should apologize if you acted like a jacka*s).
For future reference, if someone hangs up on you DON'T call them back. They need to call you back with an apology. If she calls to argue you some more, tell her she needs to apologize and call you when she's ready to do that.
It's a choice to be in a relationship with her and the same with you. Doing the above is giving her another opportunity to realize what she has been doing. If she doesn't realize it you just saved yourself a ton of headaches.
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