Agreed with all the replies. There's not some magic age that it's right/not right for kids to sleep with their parents; everyone's different. The general public view is very judgmental of co-sleeping after toddler age - but I don't put much stock in general public sentiment. Do what works for your family. The time DOES pass, so quickly.
This week is the third anniversary of the death of a friend's child; she was only 9. For three years, her short life and death have informed many of my parenting decisions. If something were to happen to the boys, what would I regret? I would sure regret making them be alone if they indicated they wanted to be with me! I would regret every minute I didn't take advantage of an opportunity to connect.
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