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Originally Posted by Isis Kali  I almost equate following my heart and gut with pain at this point. That's how blurred the line can get. If I want or feel a pull to something or someone, that thing will hurt me. Has anyone else every experienced that? |
I think lots of people feel that. We sabotage something that could be really great because we are either scared of being hurt or scared of being loved.
I think you have to allow yourself to open up.
I have been hurt many times in my past but I always tell myself that if I'm true to myself and I do and say things to the person I'm in a relationship with that I feel good about I will never be sorry for my actions. It's difficult to do sometimes because some people may take advantage of me because I'm so open but atleast I will never regret how I acted and I will always know that the other person knew how I felt.
Being open, I no longer have those moment where I think, "I should have told them how i felt. Maybe that would have mattered." becuase I did tell them.
Obviously with relationships you don't pour everything out on the table on the first meeting but as it feels good to you, just be open and honest about your feelings.
Well, at least that's how I feel about it.
Stop sabotaging yourself and start trusting your heart. Let yourself feel love. Let yourself be happy.
