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Originally Posted by pyrogen  You probably magnetize women to you just because of your confidence and because of your prior history of doing well with women - easier to keep doing well once you start. You seem like such a fun, spontaneous guy who is good at creating chemistry, just from those pics. |
Thanks - yes, I imagine once one becomes comfortable in this frame, and has proven its viability through experience, they will become FAR more compelling in their presentation and explanation of the model. In truth, it justifies itself harmoniously and elegantly in the minds of anyone who can overcome their socialization, and consider the ramifications without prejudice.
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Originally Posted by pyrogen Would your secret though work for women if they're not in the polyamorous community? |
Oh, it's no secret! I've been promoting this model as-in since 2000, and living by it publicly for far longer than that!
To answer your question, virtually every women I've hooked up with has been a traditional, 'non-polyamory' socialized individual, and most were operating according to social conventions.
What I offered to them was a RADICAL CHANGE to what they had experienced before; but once they rationalized its elegance and humanity, they overcame their fear-driven programming, and embraced it fully.
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Originally Posted by pyrogen It really seems like the dynamic with women is that both men and lesbians tend to end up having a feeling of proprietary ownership toward their partner, even unconsciously. |
Certainly, this is the byproduct of tremendously negative and counter-productive socialization - BUT it can be overcome!
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy